b+xav
ARE GETTING MARRIED!
big kiss
bigger pour
WE
CAN'T
WAIT
The engaged couple aren’t what you’d call all that similar on paper. One lawyer. One writer. One organised. The other chaos. One extroverted. The other introverted. One with amazing dance moves. The other you’ll have to drag onto the dance floor. Though all that’s the fine print. The big picture is one loved up couple who are counting down the days to get married!
You’re reading this because in April of 2026 you’re going to be knocking back cocktails in Bali with B and Xav as they get married!
We’re so excited to be having our wedding in Bali. It’s a special place for the two of us. It’s where we had our first overseas holiday, where we retreat to when we’ve burnt ourselves out and need to recuperate and where we got engaged. So, it’s only fitting to tie the knot in our happy place!
the finer details
WELCOME DRINKS
Ku De Ta, Seminyak
22 April 2026 | 4:30pm
The Big Day
Iman Villa, Canggu
24 April 2026 | 3:30pm
Recovery Day
Iman Villa, Canggu
25 April 2026 | 12:30pm
the dress code
We know that as a wedding guest, the most stressful part of attending a wedding is often thinking about what to wear. We have included some details below to make picking the perfect outfit that little bit easier.
WELCOME DRINKS
casual cocktail
We will be kicking off the celebrations with beachside sunset drinks, enjoying the golden glow as the waves roll in. Dress to impress in your relaxed coastal best and get ready to toast to what’s ahead.
recovery day
resort
chill
We will be soaking up the sun, lounging by the pool and debriefing on the day that was. Dress in your best poolside attire and don't forget to bring a towel, swimmers, sunnies and slides.
the big day
tropical fabulous
Leave the black, navy and suits at home and bring your best and brightest instead!
We want our wedding to be full of colour, fun and style – that includes what you wear! Think resort chic meets tropical glam: bold prints, fun textures, breathable fabrics, flowing dresses, sequins and colour.
For the ladies: We want to see fabulous accessories, statement earrings and your best dancing shoes. The one thing we don't care about is your hemline - minis, maxis and everything in between are encouraged, whatever will make you feel fabulous. Please note the wedding will be outdoors on grass, so please leave your stilettos at home (we'd rather not be stuck re-turfing the villa!)
For the men: linen or lightweight cotton shirts and pants are ideal. Bright or patterned shirts are totally welcome (you can do better than beige). Jackets optional.
rsvp to our wedding
a note on little ones
While we absolutely adore your children, we kindly ask that our wedding day celebration be adults-only. We want everyone (including you!) to relax, let loose, and truly enjoy the evening.
Kids are welcome at the Welcome Drinks and Recovery Day, so they’ll still be part of the fun across the weekend.
We understand arranging childcare while travelling can be tricky. Below is a list of companies recommended by our wedding planner:
Thank you for understanding
a note on gifts
We feel incredibly lucky to be celebrating with our favourite people in such a special place. With everyone travelling from near and far to join us in Bali, we truly don’t expect any gifts — your love, laughter, and company are more than enough.
However, if you would like to contribute something, we’ve set up a honeymoon fund to help us create some unforgettable memories after the big day. You can find the details linked here.
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